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Embracing Authenticity

Embracing Authenticity
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A Heartfelt Conversation with Becky Kopitzke

I recall the first time I met Becky Kopitzke. Her warm smile and genuine spirit immediately put me at ease. Over the years, our friendship has deepened, and I’ve come to admire her passion for helping others find their unique voices. Recently, I had the pleasure of hosting Becky on my podcast, where we discussed the journey of writing, balancing family life, and pursuing God-given dreams.

Embracing Authenticity

Discovering Your Unique Voice

During our conversation, Becky spoke words that settled deep into my heart. “When we embrace our true selves, we connect more deeply with our audience,” she shared. These are simple yet profound words. Haven’t we all felt the weight of trying to be someone we’re not? Of measuring our worth against the world’s expectations? But Becky’s reminder was clear: God created us uniquely, and it’s in that uniqueness that our stories shine the brightest.

Becky’s journey from author to business coach is a testament to this truth. She’s walked the road of uncertainty, wondering if her voice mattered and if her message could make a difference. Now, through The Inspired Business, she pours her wisdom into others—writers, speakers, dreamers—helping them build sustainable ministries that reflect who God made them to be.

Authenticity is more than honesty; it’s an invitation—an open door that says, “Come in, you belong here.” Becky understands this, and she encourages communicators to trust that their stories—every joy, every struggle—have a purpose. When we let God use our experiences, He weaves them into something far greater than we could imagine.

If you’ve ever wondered if your message matters or if your voice is enough, take heart. God doesn’t call the perfect; He calls the willing. Through platforms like The Inspired Business, Becky is equipping communicators to step forward with faith, trusting that God’s plan is unfolding in every word they write and every story they share.

Balancing Family and Personal Dreams

As mothers and writers, Becky and I know the delicate dance well—the constant juggling of family responsibilities while reaching for personal dreams. Some days, it feels like we’re spinning plates, hoping none come crashing down. Becky, with her gentle wisdom, offered a truth that settled deep: “Recognize the season of life you’re in and adjust your expectations accordingly.”

Ecclesiastes 4:6 says, “Better one handful with tranquility than two handfuls with toil and chasing after the wind.” 

Isn’t that a picture of life? We so often stretch ourselves thin, grasping for more—more success, more validation, more to-do lists checked off—only to realize we’re chasing the wind.

God’s wisdom whispers a better way—a way of contentment, a way of balance. It’s not about doing it all; it’s about doing what matters most. Sometimes, one handful is enough—enough to hold onto joy, cherish what God has placed right in front of us, and remind us that our worth isn’t in our productivity but in His presence.

So, today, let’s loosen our grip on the things that weigh us down and embrace the peace that comes with trusting God in every season—whether we’re knee-deep in diapers or deadlines. Because one handful with tranquility? That’s a gift we don’t want to miss.

Overcoming Self-Doubt

Fear and self-doubt stand like towering walls, keeping us from sharing the stories God has written in our lives. We wonder, “Who am I to speak?” or “What if my story isn’t enough?” But Becky, with her gentle encouragement, reminded us of a truth we too often forget: “Our experiences, no matter how ordinary they may seem, can offer hope and guidance to someone else.”

Becky Kopitzke

Isn’t that just like God? Taking the simple, everyday moments—the laughter and the tears, the victories and the stumbles—and weaving them into something that touches hearts. Our stories, when shared with honesty and grace, have the power to meet someone right where they are. To whisper, You’re not alone.

Vulnerability isn’t a weakness; it’s a bridge—a bridge that connects our hearts to others, allowing them to see God’s fingerprints in our lives. When we open our hearts and share the raw, real moments, we invite others to do the same. And in that sacred space, God’s grace shines the brightest.

So, let’s not let fear have the final word. Instead, let’s trust that God can use our stories—flawed, unfinished, and beautiful—to inspire others on their own journeys. When we step out in faith, we allow others to see not just our struggles but the faithfulness of the One who carries us through them.

Practical Steps to Begin Writing

For those looking to start their writing journey we suggest:

1. Set Aside Dedicated Time: Even if it’s just a few minutes a day, consistency is key.

2. Create a Comfortable Space: Find a spot where you feel inspired and free from distractions.

3. Join a Community: Connecting with other writers can provide support and accountability.

4. Invest in Learning: Consider resources like workshops or coaching to hone your skills. 

My conversation with Becky was a beautiful reminder that telling your story is not just about writing; it’s about sharing a piece of your heart. By stepping out in faith and embracing your unique voice, you can make a difference in the lives of others.

As Becky wisely said, “When we share our stories, we invite others to see the faithfulness of God in our lives.”

For more insights and to listen to the full conversation, listen here.

And if you’d like to learn how to communicate your message better, go here!

Check out our new workbook: Tell Your Story!

Additional Resources

Daily BIble Podcast with Tricia and Michelle

Daily Bible Podcast

We’re Tricia and Michelle, two friends inviting you to join us in reading through the Bible chronologically this year. Reading the Bible every day can be a challenge. We’re here to summarize each day’s passage and provide action steps … in under 15 minutes. Grab a buddy and join our community. Take the plunge, and let’s read through the Bible together. We’ll be cheering you on all the way!

You can join us using your own One Year Bible© (if you’d like to purchase one, you can grab your preferred version using the links below). Or you can print up the One Year Chronological Reading Plan. If you don’t have a copy of the One Year Bible©, we will have the exact passages for the next day in the show notes. You can also subscribe to the One Year Chronological Bible Reading plan on the YouVersion Bible App.

Join us here.

 

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